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Will Not Listen

When a Poodle Won’t Listen 

Poodle will not listen, won't walk

Overview

Pet parents expect certain things from their canine family members and listening is at the top of the list. After all, things can seem awfully out of control if your Poodle is ignoring your wishes or even your stern commands. 

This section will cover everything you need to know regarding why a Poodle may ignore their owner, only listen some of the time, or act completely independent, and, importantly, effective steps you can take so that your Poodle will listen to you.   

Does Intelligence Correspond to Listening Ability?

As you may know, Poodles are considered to be one of the most intelligent dog breeds. They are very cognitively aware and are masters at working out puzzles and solving problems. Poodles have a strong history as water dogs, working side-by-side with humans to retrieve fallen prey in ponds, swamps, lakes, and other bodies of water which required them to stringently listen and obey. 

One of the top-ranking factors in regard to intelligence is how quickly a dog learns new commands. In this aspect, Poodles, as a breed in general, are exceptional, ranked at #2 in obedience intelligence by Dr. Stanley Coren, author of The Intelligence of Dogs. 

However, there is a much larger picture to this when a Poodle is not listening to his owners. Intelligence does not automatically mean that a dog will obey, it just means that they are capable of it. 

When a Poodle is trying to lead the way and gives little regard to his owners, the manner in which commands are given, frequency of learning opportunities, motivation to listen, and perceived hierarchy in the house all play a role and are some of the determining factors of obedience. 

So, while a Poodle may very well be a smart and clever dog, this does not mean that they will automatically fall right in line or have been taught the benefits of doing so. 

Age-Related Listening Elements 

Puppies: If your young Poodle puppy rips apart their pee pads, won’t come when called, and refuses to listen when you order a ‘sit’, this is usually a matter of the Poodle being too young to fully understand what is requested and needing more time to learn the rules you are trying to establish. By the 4 to 5-month mark, puppies are at the perfect age to really soak in new rules and expectations. 

Adults: Ideally, you will want to train your Poodle to listen better before they reach adulthood. By the 1 to 2-year mark, habits are well-formed. This said, adult Poodles can be taught to obey, it will just take a bit longer than with pups. Rescues that come into new homes as adults with a history of neglect or abuse may also need more time. 

Seniors: Older Poodles may have partial hearing or vision loss that affects their ability to hear or see their humans which can be incorrectly interpreted as decreased listening skills. 

Why a Poodle May Not Be Listening

1. Lack of Authority. 

In order for a Poodle to consistently listen to you, you must be seen as an authority figure. In other words, a leader. Dogs usually ignore those that they see under or at the same rank as themselves. You may assume that simply being a human would make your dog seen you as being in charge, but that is not the case with all dogs and especially with Poodles that have an independent streak. 

2. Rules or commands are not understood. 

If a Poodle has no idea what ‘sit’, ‘come’, or ‘heel’ means, they cannot obey. Depending on the tone of voice that an owner uses, some dogs are not even sure what ‘no’ means. And, without strict housebreaking guidelines and implementation, Poodles will not instinctively know the house training rules. 
3. Lack of motivation. 

Some Poodles do understand what their human expects them to do, but do not see any valid reason (from their canine perspective) why they should listen.

Ideally, the answer to ‘why’ would be because it was asked of them; however, some dogs, particularly when there is a lack of authority (see next point), see no advantage to listening. These are the dogs that may appear to pay attention now and then. This sort of random obeying is usually just a Poodle doing as they wish which sometimes matches up to what their human wants as well. 

4. Strong Emotional States

If a Poodle is feeling strong emotions, this may overpower any instinct or ability to listen. For example, during a thunderstorm, a Poodle may be so frightened and panicked that they are not able to follow commands. Or, a Poodle that feels their territory is being encroached upon by another dog may be so wound up in protection mode that they tune their owner out. 

How to Get Your Poodle to Listen to You

If you feel that your Poodle is living by their own rules, there are some effective steps that will help get things under control.  

#1 Establish yourself as leader.

This is a must in regard to teaching a Poodle to listen. Dogs see the world in terms of hierarchy. Within the den (house) lives the pack (family consisting of humans and pets) that has an Alpha(s) (leader) to which the Betas (all other household members) deferred to, respect, and obey. 

In fact, dogs are happy when they receive direction from their leader and gain self-confidence and pride when praised for doing so. 

Problems develop if a Poodle mistakenly believes that they themselves are leader, only sees one human as leader (thus ignoring other owners), or has little faith in their Alpha’s ability to hold onto their title (the leader is perceived as weak). This puts a lot of stress on a dog and can lead to an involuntary power struggle. 

Fortunately, this can be resolved. There are several methods to establish authority and all should be enforced: 
  • All meals and any snacks are only given once the dog has obeyed a ‘sit’ for a count of 5. 
  • Any time the dog is on leash, they must be in a heeling position. This means to your immediate left and no further ahead than the extension of your foot. Using a retractable leash and a harness will help you maintain this. 
  • The dog must defer to the human when there is a physical stalemate. For example, if your Poodle is blocking your path, your Poodle will move out of the way as opposed to you sidestepping around them. And, when it is time to leave or enter back into the house, you will do so first. 
With the exception of young children, everyone in the household should abide by these guidelines. 
#2 Be confident in your leadership abilities. 

Often, pet parents that are used to being ignored by their Poodles speak in an exasperated tone. And, their body language may send a signal of defeatism. If you want your Poodle to respect your place as leader, stand tall and give commands using a firm, steady voice. 

While training, there will be times that your Poodle will not yet understand what is being asked or will struggle with a concept. That is okay as long as you are working on things. Let your Poodle know that by saying ‘It’s okay, we’ll work on that’, spoken with a leadership tone as opposed to saying ‘Why can’t you listen to me?’ in a frustrated or despondent manner. 

#3 Take the time to teach commands.

Many pet parents wrongly assume that their dog knows what to. That they should obey a sit, come when called, or walk nicely beside them. But those skills are not inbred. Not at all. Dogs must be taught.

When you think about the ways in which a Poodle may not be listening: Fidgeting or running off when you want to groom them or put on their harness or pulling on the leash as you try to walk them; these could be resolved if the dog had a firm grip on basic commands and heeling. 

If you’re unsure where to start, Training the Best Dog Ever: A 5-Week Program by Larry Kay is a very helpful book with step-by-step photos. 
#4 Invest enough time and effort.  

Having a well-trained dog takes time and effort. The amount of energy that you devote to this will directly affect how well your Poodle responds. While every puppy and dog are unique individuals, and depending on how well you implement all training steps, it can take several weeks for a Poodle to learn a command and months to gain a good understanding of house-training rules or break a behavior like barking.  

#5 Set your Poodle up for success

If your Poodle stares out of the window in the morning, barking like crazy at the birds, close the blinds. If they shred their pee pads into pieces, use a pee pad tray. If they zoom across the street when you let them outside, do not let them out without being on a leash.  

Take the time to address issues like these to limit the number of things you’ll need to work on and it’ll be less overwhelming, not to mention more realistic, to work on the remaining problems. 
#6 Give your Poodle motivation.
 
The most effective surefire way to teach a dog to obey is to reward listening with both praise and training treats. This is the power of positive reinforcement and is a top training technique. 

Praise (happy words and a pat) convey that you, your Poodle’s leader, is proud of a job well done. 

And high-value training treats is one of the best ways to prompt a dog to want to repeat a certain action. In other words, it will not just be you that wishes your Poodle will do something (quiet down, not eat grass, go to the bathroom in a certain area, etc.), but your Poodle will actually want to do it too. All to get another taste of that high-value treat.

So, what makes a treat high value? 

In general, it will be soft and chewy, not hard and crunchy. It will offer a quick yet strong burst of flavor. And it will have a special taste that they cannot receive in any other way (not given as regular snacks).  For your Poodle, this may mean salmon, bacon, cheese, or a sweet treat with a fruit base. 

If you are looking for good motivation treats to help your Poodle learn to listen, Zuke's Mini Naturals Dog Treats is a great choice. These 100% all-natural treats have some excellent flavor options including salmon, duck, rabbit, and peanut butter & oats. 
And, if you are looking for a fruity treat, Fruitables Skinny Minis Soft Pumpkin & Berry Treats is a wonderful choice. This particular line is soft and chewy (as opposed to their baked or crunchy offerings) and can be found in other fruity options including pumpkin & mango, and watermelon. 
#6 Limit distractions. 

It’s very difficult for a dog to listen to their owner if they are not able to focus or their attention is divided. 
So, when you are first working on teaching your Poodle a skill, command, or behavior, do so in a place with no distractions. Once there has been some headway, you can gradually increase the level of distractions. 

For example, if you’re working on getting your Poodle to heel, do so where there is no traffic. As you progress, move to roads with a few cars, and then finally roads with a good amount of traffic flow. 

A Final Word

Most dogs are far happier when there is order over chaos and they certainly prefer a calm relaxed owner over an irritated one. In addition, most dogs appreciate when their human stands firm as a strong leader; when that position is unclear or a dog feels that they need to take over, it puts a tremendous amount of stress on them. 

You’ll find that once you take charge in a loving yet firm way and as your pet parenting runs more harmoniously, your Poodle will be a more content canine family member that’s happy to listen to you. 
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